Interracial Dating:Finding Interracial Christian Singles

July 03, 2005 (PRLEAP.COM) Lifestyle News
Searching for the perfect mate can be one of life's greatest challenges. After all, forever is a long time. From people of all races, weather they are African American, Caucasian, Asian or Hispanic Christian singles, can find dating really trying.It can be hard to find the right person.What if other's dont share the same values and beliefs that their potential lovers do? How do people handle that and when? wouldn't it be easier for interracial Christian's dating, to know ahead of time that potential lovers they will meet are Christians, just like them?.It will be much easier dating Christians form any race, whom know their respect for God and other people, values and beliefs, mirrors their own?. Adam Houston, An African American Christian whom has dated other Christian's, said he understood the problems associated with Interracial Christians dating."knowing from dating" he said, my experiences were trying at best". "My stomach used to churn before hand. I'd be so excited to meet new people, only to cringe as that feeling was replaced with hopelessness as the person demonstrated a trait I knew I just wouldn't be able to tolerate". "If they said something snide about children and my being a parent, I knew it was over". "If they weren't pet people, it was going nowhere"."If they were vulgar, ignorant, not funny or if God didn't have a place in their life like mine, what could we possibly have in common?".
So how do Christians find the right singles?,
How do christians dating at least give a first date a chance, by taking the time to get to know people coming from a similar place as them?. The workplace can be a popular source, if there are lots of employees and some that believe in God as they do. But what if some christians work too much and don't have time to meet other people? Or, what if meeting people is quite a scary experience, and they like to find a 'like minded group of people', that they can get to know via email first before actually meeting?
The answer, more and more, is the Internet. Never before has the world's millions of singles, been able to find sources of other singles who are just like they are. The best part is these specific sources of singles can be pre-determined ahead of time. For instance, individuals know you're talking to someone who is Christian, because they found their ad on an Interracial Christian singles site. Make sense? much easier than trying to make these discoveries of values and beliefs over coffee or dinner. People could further refine their search by specific age ranges, kids or not, divorced or not, white, black, hispanic, asian, location, income level, career path, Yankees fan or not (very important!), etc. More importantly, their hearts, beliefs, values, sense of humor and general outlooks can be very similar. Anyone can have this experience, when finding a source of like-minded people to start to get to know.
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