Dating Tips for Men: Genuine Dating and Seduction Skills Begins With Your Attitude

Staten Island, NY – Men spend a good deal of money wining and dining women, with most men coming away with nothing more than an empty wallet. This has been the way the dating scene has worked for decades so it is considered to be the one and only way that dating is even possible. A brand new blog at http://dating-and-seduction-tips.blogspot.com presents an alternative to old-fashioned dating which might be surprising to quite a few people.

In the last few years, a growing number of individuals have been coming forward with the idea that traditional dating is not only ineffective but also obsolete. Although traditional methods are fun, they are not the way for a man to achieve real dating success. To be really successful with women a man must seduce her with certain approaches and attitudes that automatically attract women to men. Learning and applying these attitudes can increase a man’s seduction skills tremendously.

Upcoming seduction expert, Abbas Abedi, has put together a free blog that not only refers men to the best of the best in the dating and seduction field but also teaches how to overcome shyness, build confidence, root out limiting attitudes and how to date effectively through online dating services. In other words, developing the right attitudes, which is the first step to success in dating and seduction, is the domain of this free blog at http://dating-and-seduction-tips.blogspot.com .
Abbas Abedi claims that when you develop your confidence and the right attitudes you will build that quality called “charisma”. Men with charisma attract the opposite sex to them automatically. Looks and money become almost completely irrelevant.

He considers confidence to be an extremely important attitude to have in approaching women. Any pick up line said without confidence will be ignored or laughed at. Developing confidence and self-esteem with women is a necessity before any real success at dating can even begin to emerge. In fact, a confident cocky attitude will often get women to do the approaching themselves.

Abbas Abedi further claims that a man will be more effective with seducing women if the focus is not to buy her stuff but to be indifferent towards her. In addition to this it is a good idea to be open and forward especially in conversations about sex. In fact, he goes as far as to say that sex should be brought up, either directly or indirectly, in the very first conversation as that leads to the man being associated with thoughts of sex in the woman’s mind.

Some men might object to such an approach, as it seems very forward but Abbas Abedi says that today's dating world is a lot freer than most people realize. For example it was published Time Magazine Sep. 15, 1967 that, "Today's maiden is often assumed to be less concerned with being chaste than being chased—and caught, perhaps often—before she marries." In other words, women were more open sexually than ever before in 1967. The trend could only have grown since then.

Dating is actually easier now than ever before. With the advent and growth of online dating no man needs to be without a mate. In October of 2004 Time Magazine reported, "While e-dating has been around for nearly a decade—and many younger singles swear by its proven powers—an older singles set is just catching on. On Match.com one of the most popular online services, the number of singles over 50 has tripled since 2000, to 934,000. SeniorFriendFinder.com's membership has likewise spiked from 95,000 in 2001 to over 313,000 today." This is another trend which will continue to grow and any man can take advantage of it 24/7.

It is also a good idea to look up dating tips on google. Matchmaking sites like match.com or eharmoney.com also offer a good number of tips that can help you get going with your dating life. Just go out and sign up for several online dating sites and read all you can. Then compare it to the information on Abbas Abedi’s blog http://dating-and-seduction-tips.blogspot.com you will be surprised at the different approaches presented there. They seem unusual yet a little experimentation will show that they are extremely effective.

Ultimately, if you want to be successful at dating, it is up to you to learn new ideas and apply them, otherwise it is all just daydreaming.